Look, I've been dealing with bladder leaks since my prostate surgery, and it sucks. But it shouldn't mean you have to give up your life.
Whether you're dealing with light or moderate leaks after surgery like me, leaks that just come with getting older, or those annoying leaks when you cough or sneeze - finding the right protection means you can actually go out and live instead of staying home all the time.
Here's the problem I found with most leak protection: it's not made for active guys. It shifts when you move, leaks out the sides, and leaves you feeling wet. Plus they're bulky and definitely not attractive. I was constantly checking myself, avoiding people, and planning everything around bathrooms.
After going through this myself, I kept getting asked by other guys: "What's actually the best protection out there?" So I tested several different products over three months in real-world situations - the gym, work meetings, social events, all of it. Here are the 5 best.
TLDR: Menvault All-Day Protection Boxer Briefs came in #1 because they're washable and reusable (finally!), they actually hold enough for a full day without leaking (like a full can of soda), they look and feel like normal underwear so nobody can tell, and there's no odor. I switched to these and haven't looked back.
Thanks for this review @Robert. I'm about 1 year post-surgery.. and honestly so glad I tried Menvault instead of sticking with disposables. I was going through 2-3 Depends Guards a day and the cost was adding up fast. Switched to the Menvault boxer briefs about 3 months ago and haven't looked back. They handle my moderate leaks throughout the day no problem, and I actually feel like I'm wearing normal underwear again. My wife noticed I seem more confident too, which is huge. The reusable aspect means I'm saving probably $50-60 a month compared to what I was spending on disposables. If you're on the fence about trying them, I'd say go for it. They're not miracle workers but they're way better than living in disposable pads. And like others have said, keep up with those Kegels. Every bit helps. Stay strong brothers.
Good insights and a helpful comparison. 7 months out from RALP dealing with moderate stress incontinence. I was using Northshore Guards but decided to try Menvault boxer briefs around month 4. Really glad I made the switch. I coach so I'm on my feet all day, and these hold up through a full 8-hour shift without issues. What surprised me was how normal they feel compared to wearing a pad. My only regret is not trying them sooner, saved me a few hundred bucks. Definitely worth it if you're looking for something reusable that works. Hang in there guys.
Are Menvault boxer briefs easy to wash? Because others did not...
Hi @Micheal, yes, I just wash them cold or warm with regular detergent. Line dry or tumble dry low (dry very fast). I have been using them for over a year now and they still work great.
Using Menvault for 6 months now. Wife has no idea they're any different from my regular underwear. That's exactly what I needed.
Do they work for overnight protection? And second, do they hold moderate leaks?
@Frank Yeah, I wear them at night too. They give me peace of mind, and honestly my wife likes them better than what I was using before haha. They handle moderate leaks really well. If you're dealing with really heavy incontinence though, you might want to look at Depend incontinence underwear instead.
How many pairs do I need?
@George Hi George, I got 7 pairs (one for each day of the week) so you always have clean ones while others are in the wash. Not sure what offer they currently have but you can also start with 4 pairs. They have a money back guarantee so you can try without risk like I did.
I hate these posts as a vision into my future. I love these posts for being ready for my future. Very helpful!!